Romantic Day Out in Carmichael (yes, really)

March 2nd, 2010

For partly financial reasons, we live out in Carmichael. Not really a hotbed of romantic things to do, but in an effort to save money and gas, I’ve been trying to come up with fun dates closer to home. Here are a few ideas for an inexpensive Saturday day out in Carmichael:

Breakfast at Lido café
The Lido is one of those hole in the strip mall places that actually has really good food. It’s small but they have a few booths and the wait staff are friendly. I got the cinnamon roll (which was raved about on Yelp) and it was very good, especially if you like yours really sweet. We also had the sausages which were banger-size and had a little kick to them, some toast and tea.

Soccer (football) at Ancil Hoffman park
Since my husband is English, we have fun kicking around the ball on the big open field at Ancil Hoffman, just after the entrance gate. More serious players can be found here on some days or around the back by the golf club… but we just like to dribble and steal from each other. Guaranteed to make you laugh like a kid and in our case, wheeze like old fogeys. Afterwards, you can take a nice stroll on the trail that goes around the park and Effie Yeaw nature center has a couple of good, short trails to the river. My only complaint about Ancil Hoffman is people don’t always leash their dogs.

Carmichael Library
We love our library and visit it all the time. Since the recession started, I’ve been to the library more times than in all of my previous years put together. We get movies, cds, magazines, books and childrens books (I like ‘em). Once a month they have a book sale, so that’s a nice little diversion as well.

Boulevard Coffee
A good spot for an afternoon pick-me-up is Boulevard Coffee on Fair Oaks (near Lido café). We ordered up some tea and sat at one of the cute indoor tables while reading the books we got from the library (don’t spill!). The place is kind of smallish so if there is a loud conversation going on, it can be hard to concentrate on reading. But it’s a great place if you want to have a romantic chat.

Thrift Town
It’s always hit or miss at this (like most) thrift stores. On recent visits, I’ve picked up cute thank you notes, an embroidered pillowcase, a shirt, books and a VHS tape. Watch for their 50% off all clothing sales if you really want a good deal. (not sure if that includes their vintage section or not)

For dinner, we usually head home and make something ourselves… it’s cheaper, healthier and frankly, there’s not a lot of cheap/decent places to eat in our section of Carmichael. Although I’ve been meaning to try Serritella’s again… I haven’t been there in years.

Hope you can use one or two of these suggestions next time you are in our neighborhood!

Sacramento Heritage Walks

February 16th, 2010

Looks like Sacramento Heritage has a new website featuring a number of self-guided walking tours through historic areas of town.  Some look better than others, but definitely worth checking out.

This reminds me that Sacramento Historic House has been criminally neglected.  I have no excuse.  It needs a redesign and new photos and maybe add in street addresses (which I hesitated to do originally).

Community Supported Agriculture

February 7th, 2010

I’ve recently signed us up for a CSA box every three weeks (I know, it’s not often enough!) through Farm Fresh To You. The first week we got the regular small box which had a lot of great stuff in it, but sadly I’m not much of a cook and I worried that some things (e.g. collard greens) might go at least partially unused.

So we switched to the small Fast Fruit & Veg box which is great for healthy snacking and for any of you brave raw foodies. Anyway, I can’t recommend it highly enough. I was raised on an American diet of canned chili, pizza, and burritos so having really great fresh produce is eye-opening. I literally went on and on to anyone who would listen about how good the carrots were (yep, they got eaten straight off the bat).

People ask why I don’t just go to the farmers market?  Well, I could and still plan to in the summer, but… when I go, I’m easily overwhelmed by all the people and the lines and not knowing which stand has the good stuff, etc… maybe I’m alone in this, but I like having the best of the season brought to my door in a nice recyclable box.  It’s like Christmas.

*fyi, the photo above is from our trip to England and not of what was in our FFTY box – although it’s pretty close (minus the yummy looking jam).

Distrusting The Oracle

February 2nd, 2010

On my walk through the mist this morning, I was listening to Melody Gardot and thinking about how magical the moment felt. I could feel myself starting to smile and I got a sudden burst of confidence that made me think “this is great – I feel great… I can do anything I want… I could totally go live in England I feel so good.”

And then suddenly my brain projected me into this future England where I’m (inexplicably) throwing a cocktail party. The candles are lit and I’m surrounded by a bunch of strangers whom I’m attempting to make laugh. And I suddenly feel really intimidated and anxious.

Back in the present, as I’m walking, my smile drops and I think to myself… nooooo, I don’t want that. I don’t want to leave here, this town, my hometown, where I don’t have to throw cocktail parties and I don’t have to try to make people laugh and I understand the system. As I continue to stroll along through the mist, less energetic than before, I tighten my coat and reassure myself that I’m not moving to another country anytime soon.

So here’s the thing. This is how your brain screws with you. I started feeling really good and ready to take some risks… so my brain decides to throw a wrench in and make me feel insecure enough to want to stay safe in my comfort zone. I’m here to tell you that your brain cannot always be trusted to make good decisions or to accurately predict how you are going to behave or enjoy any particular situation (read Stumbling on Happiness which talks about this at length)… and yet we treat our brains like an all knowing oracle.

The truth is… if I were to move to England (or anywhere else) where I didn’t have my family and didn’t know anyone, there would be intimidation and anxiety, yes… but there would also be joy, wonder, comfort, delight, romance, frustration, anger, sadness and boredom. Just like there is here, in this town. My brain chose to bring up a vision that would cause me some social anxiety but it could just as easily brought up a vision of me buying mascara at Boots, because that’s what life abroad would mostly be about… those everyday moments that are mostly good and not really all that different.

Sac Historic House Profile: The Sainte Claire

January 18th, 2010

Recently, I watched the documentary Valentino: The Last Emperor and the film got me thinking about the scarcity of luxury and quality in this modern world. There is something so inspiring in a beautifully designed evening gown or a multi-course meal prepared with care and forethought or a luxury hotel that is actually… luxurious!

The Sainte Claire is truly one of the “grand dame” hotels in California. It was designed by the San Francisco architectural firm Weeks and Day, no strangers to elegant hotels (they also designed the Mark Hopkins and the St. Francis), and opened in 1926 as part of the renaissance of downtown San Jose. Over the years, the hotel has hosted a bevy of famous guests including Clark Gable, Judy Garland, JFK and Joe DiMaggio and when you walk through the lobby doors you can almost imagine that one of them might turn the corner at any moment. The detailed restoration and renovations to each of the 170 guest rooms, and 17 suites, showcases the handmade hardwood furniture, rich wall coverings, ceiling murals and, in the lobby, elaborate gilt scrollwork and hand-carved, hand-painted ceiling panels. You can read more about the history of the hotel here.

We were lucky enough to secure the Grand Suite (room 631) during our recent stay and, if you are looking for a great way to indulge yourself – this is the room to get. The views of downtown are amazing, especially at night when the lights are sparkling like little jewels outside the high arched windows. There is a dining room for eight and a sitting area with a fireplace and flat screen tv, but we mostly sat at the bar in the kitchen area and nibbled on our complimentary snacks while looking out the windows. I loved all of the furniture in our bedroom and probably would have taken the bed home if I could. Actually, you can, in a sense, if you are willing to shell out the cost of the FeatherBorne bed.

Our bathroom was lovely and had a little window that looked down the length of San Carlos boulevard. The jacuzzi tub was also a steam shower, but I confess that I slept too long in the comfortable bed and didn’t have time for a steam (next time for sure!). The bathroom includes toiletries by L’Occitane including my favorite line of lemon verbena bath and body products, which I gush about here.

There was something so solid and well crafted about our room at the Sainte Claire that it made me think, so this is the sort of feeling that those new hotels are trying achieve but can’t quite get close enough. And yet the hotel in general doesn’t feel like one big antique shop or museum – it manages to seduce you with its warmth, charm and friendliness while making it seem as if you’ve stepped into the villa of a wealthy Italian duke. Speaking of Italian, the restaurant attached to the hotel is Il Fornaio – a great place to settle in for dirty martinis and heaping plates of comforting pasta.

I know the Sainte Claire hosts a lot of weddings and I can see why, it’s a romantic hotel that makes a big impression. If you are looking for a place to stay in the Silicon Valley, I hope that you will check out and support this glorious historic hotel… it’s a real California treasure.

*the Sainte Claire is a member of the Historic Hotels of America.

Winter Wineland

January 13th, 2010

The Russian River wineries have put together a nice event for this weekend.  I know it’s a bit short notice, but if some of you are looking for something to do over the 3 day weekend… this could be fun!  One of the participants is Balletto Vineyards and I’m a fan of their Chardonnay.

More details here.

Flower Farm Inn, Loomis, CA

January 10th, 2010

Today we went for a cup of tea and a stroll around the Flower Farm Inn in Loomis.  This is a great venue for weddings, with a red barn for the reception and cute farmhouse B&B for the bride and groom.  Little chickens running around the enclosed garden area.  It was charming and lovely!

You Were Superfine, 2009… And So Was I.

December 29th, 2009

Although it was a strange year of little money and even less glamour… 2009 was off the charts in terms of career/work fulfillment and creativity. My self-esteem which had taken a bit of a beating the year before increased with every new project and experiment. I’ve definitely learned a thing or two about appreciating the good things I have in my life and being grateful for the people I can love and not the things I can buy.

So here’s what I’m thinking about for 2010:

  • Eat less food and eat food that’s local/organic
  • Learn about and take pleasure from keeping house
  • Invite people over
  • Take more photos
  • Start working toward 10% savings – even if it’s more like 1% right now
  • Visit a farm
  • Pet a horse (fear conquering)
  • Eliminate debt (it’s small but it’s there)
  • Exercise
  • Write a love letter to my husband and mail it
  • Barter for a professional massage and/or acupuncture
  • Take an online or in-class course to improve my web design skills
  • Go back to book club
  • Be more approving of myself

Mondo Beyondo:

  • Get enough clients so I can work from anywhere
  • Go to New Orleans or Savannah for the first time (the houses!)
  • Visit Italy again
  • Buy a newer used car outright (no monthly payments)
  • Move to where it’s cooler in the summer
  • Buy a vintage but restored Chesterfield sofa

Merry Christmas!

December 24th, 2009

Hope you all have a lovely holiday. We will be here at home thinking about how great it would be to drink egg nog and then deciding we don’t actually like egg nog and turning to Scotch instead. Oh and enjoying having our family close and being grateful for our many joys!

Sacramento Victorian Fire

December 22nd, 2009

There was a fire at a F Street Victorian last night (around 11th street) which, thank goodness, no one was hurt and the excellent fire department was able to extinguish the fire.  But just a reminder today to please be sure to install and regularly test your smoke detectors, especially with the dodgy wiring of some older homes.

Here’s the Sacramento Bee story.